An Exercise in Passive-Aggressive Self-Defense
The soccer publication is strangely dull, yet curiously compelling. Even title is confusing. Dear England already is used by a successful play, an upcoming television program, and a national address written by Gareth Southgate in 2021.
This iteration of Dear England isn’t formally related to any of those. It stands as an peculiar entry in the Dear England Multiverse, a volume about management: a traditionally uninspiring top-level coach theme that the author adheres to relentlessly, using the words “leadership”, “guiding” or “management” a minimum of 500 times across its 336-page length.
Questions Explored
“What defines a leader? What actions do leaders take? What insights do leaders have?” he asks in the opening, setting out his stall, but declining to ask “Why are leaders?”, questions likely saved for a follow-up publication.
Beyond that, this publication has a book-shaped hole throughout. It’s an exercise in passive-aggressive self-defense, in nearly but not entirely expressing the real point, hopping adeptly from unresolved issue to fresh pain across a series of graphs, corporate platitudes and discussions about Thomas Cromwell.
Engagement
Going through the book is like listening to your family members having a controlled but intensely emotional debate in the adjacent space while you’re attempting to focus on a professional workshop called “Countless Explanations for My Eventual Success”. But it is also difficult to disengage, as Southgate keeps coming close to something you genuinely desire to discover, before unexpectedly changing tack.
Insights
There are inevitably controversial revelations in books in this genre, due to the peeled-eyeball interest with the role of England manager. The best ones encompass: the manager resolved he was definitely going to quit as England manager after fans threw containers at him at the tournament; he almost chose to forfeiting the game at mid-match against the Bulgarian team in 2019 after his squad members were racially abused; he introduced the idea of specialist dead-ball trainers and everyone in the top division is now following his lead; he has now misplaced his love for football, a shocking revelation thrown away in a short passage at the conclusion.
Leading England through a era of fury, hope, upheaval and lockdown was a brutal experience. The wounds are clearly still raw.
Commonplace Material
In other sections, the text is flooded with an AI-style verbal clutter of standard leadership chat. Advanced copies of this publication were shared with reviewers under confidentiality clauses prior to launch, probably out of fear someone might disclose that “difficult conversations can, by their very essence, be difficult”, that you should always think before you act, that guidance takes place where change meets compassion.
Genuine Feeling
There is however real sentiment within. Guiding England through a time of fury, aspiration, turmoil and lockdown was a harsh ordeal. The wounds are obviously still unhealed, even if conveyed in a buzzword-filled reimagining of the standard leader narrative: why I was actually right about everything throughout.
Detailed Instances
The publication’s introductory section, disguised as gripping accounts of the final of the European Championship, is completely dedicated to how effective Southgate actually was at tactical substitutions (the major Southgate gripe being he was not successful at making changes). Further on, he explores significant detail about how he oversaw the Euros final of 2021 perfectly – notably the failed tiebreaker – because he adhered to a established procedure, which must mean that bringing on youthful talents very late to take the crucial kick of their careers was logical and correct.
This was confirmed by a successful shootout against Switzerland at a later tournament after a match where England spent the entire match looking as if they were striving to put on a jumper the backwards. “The control we exerted in that penalty decider was simply exhilarating,” the author notes, in between comparing the display to special forces killing a high-profile target. Goodness.
Missed Opportunities
On the occasions we do get close to a disclosure, Southgate backs away from identifying individuals or providing the juice. We discover there were challenging England individuals who required more consideration, possibly because they were pampered early in their professional journeys. But as you anticipate eagerly, he is quickly veering off into something titled a specific management theory, which asserts that instead of a grouping of characteristics or ideals, culture is in fact an element that is created by, gah, please, that’s sufficient.
Notable Sections
Included in the stronger bits are when the author discusses about the incremental method of fostering fortitude in the next generation, or how he sought to articulate Englishness more coherently and more helpfully than anyone else in the limelight. Most impressively, there is a really absorbing narrative of that traumatic night in the Bulgarian capital where England’s black players were targeted with hatred (and afterwards supported forcefully by their leader).
Genuine Ending
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